I just remembered that I told my mom I would give her a list of present ideas for Ben. We bought him a Nintendo DS. (That's what he asked for and I think a lot of the games are fairly educational so I am not too worried about the brain rotting aspect of it) I don't think its any worse than TV. As a matter of fact, the games can be played against other players wirelessy so its really more interactive than tv.
Anyway, along with the list of books I made the other day here are a few things. I will add more if I get a chance.
Little Einsteins Gameboy Advanced Game
I've heard this is a great beginner game. The DS machine also plays Gameboy advance games.
Go Diego Go's Safari Rescue
This one looks good for a little kid also.
Tonka Lights and Sounds Vehicles
Ben has the helicopter and LOVES it.
The kids already have MP3 players (well one that they share anyway) so no need for those!